Got response after 5 days. She never texted me on the phone number yet. The best response to ally concern? "It'll be fun." or ask for underlying concern "Nervous about? Stanger Danger?" or "nervous excitement is normal. It'll be fun" "It'll be fun. Do you like wine?" Since she's already concerned should I go for my romantic balcony or meet at the park first? @avilench
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Hey ideas how to make this date happen? @avilench
Lesson Learnt, should not have gone for Whatsapp at this stage. Needless distraction introduced.
The challenging her frame is not working. Maybe hope emotion-based "breaking my heart [name]" or "imagine loosing on your potential lover because you didn't use your words" or simply "use your sweet words" ? or ignore it all and assume date and proceed with "do you like wine?" I feel there's a concern that's not been addressed. Once that's out this can turn around.
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Give it time. Like a week or so. If you don’t respond then you can do one of these takeaways
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ok which takeaways? @avilench