So most of the advice on PWF seems geared toward the f*ckboy model. Getting one off hookups or friend with benefits scenarios. Is there any advice geared towards attracting a high quality girl for committed relationships? I'm wondering how I should set my profile up for this.
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A lot of the same advice applies. You still want to fuck the girl soon and not dilly dadle with a shit load of dates. If it takes two dates, then that's fine. But if it takes 5 dates, then something is wrong. Also, the key is what you do after you fuck the girl. You ideally don't want her leaving right away. You can talk, cuddle, etc but you don't want it to be awkward after sex. Also, the sex should be amazing ideally. If you can get the chick to sleep over, then your odds are even higher (but don't pressure her).
Also, I strongly agree with JMULV's 3 bangs rule. Meaning, after you get 3 separate meets that lead to sex in, the girl becomes locked down. Thus, you should schedule the second and 3rd meetup as soon as possible (without being too needy about it)
PS: I have had numerous longterm relationships
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Thanks Alex, I appreciate the advice man.
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Happy to help
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Question, wouldn't you want to put less sexual content in both your profile and the way you speak to the girls? Surely you will screen out some options using a sexually aggressive profile.
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Up to you. Dial it down if you've got a thing about wanting your LTR to not have much sexual experience. If you want a girl who bangs, and knows how to bang, and wants to bang, and will bang you on the first/second date so you know she bangs, leave it alone. Nothing wrong with screening out what you don't want! Especially since you kinda only need to find 1 woman.
A very wise man once said "dates are for girls you're already fucking". Let that seep into your heart.
I'm personally way too old for sexually inexperienced or repressed women. My problems start to run the other way, dealing with women who used to bang before other men ruined them for everyone.
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Yes, I wouldn't go full on 50 shades of grey. Find a nice balance between humor, DHV and sexualizing. Basically, I want to screen out the prudes and "wait 10 dates before we fuck" girls, but not the chicks in the middle