"Oh noo, are you high risk or something?" (Assuming she's covid cautious, maybe has a health condition) Ps not sure if you saw my Hadis update but we're seeing each other casually now (met up yesterday for the 3rd time to hang out / fuck / cuddle / etc). I'd want more but she says she doesn't see me romantically anymore and just wants to be fwb. Better than nothing though. Thanks for the support last week, even telling me there'd be a chance to rekindle gave me more confidence going into the closure meetup
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Can you elaborate on your second point
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people rationalize after their actions. so their reason for doing something changes after they do the ting. given your post history i highly suspect it's because you are too needy
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Fair enough, you might be right. Still figuring things out as I go, it was a mindfuck to find out that she wanted a relationship before and that was one of the reasons she broke up w me (she felt unvalued and wanted me to do the relationship talk) so it's not as black and white as redpill wisdom applying to every situation. But I still have more experience to collect before I can form my opinions on a situation like this more fully. You might be right or wrong from how I currently see it about neediness being the main factor, I think it contributed to the breakup but idk if it's really at play now