I am sick of doing lame mistakes when I respond in haste and not in the right mindset. Some previous habits need to unlearned pronto. Background - Hippy yoga healer intuitive type woman. Her popular IG is full of leading women's circles and feminine sensuality etc. She's a woman's coach, speaker, model, entrepreneur, healer, intuitive, sensitive type etc Has some almost naked sensual pics as well. The kind of girl you would meet at a yoga festival leading a workshop. Give my profile and similar interests ( yoga/tantra) I do get some of them. That's why you'll see me responding in that kind of language. Everything was going well until this morning. My response to her voice message just fucked it up. ( Can't attach MP3 Here's the link https://drive.google.com/file/d/1UcxnI6LcHdtH4b4PFJfGfURxvuLjsi8_/view?usp=sharing ) She wanted to talk about my religion ( Sikh) and I didn't want to pic that thread up at this stage on text. Although I get women's fascination with it and fine talking about it in person. In this case just didn't want to get too much in the relationship frame on the text. Came across as uncalibrated ( arrogant perhaps), not matching her tone/investment and vibe. It happens every time I respond without taking my time and analyzing. My natural instincts are crap. Anyways, I feel it can be recovered. How would you navigate this one? @avilench This might be a unique case for you :)