I'm running into an interesting situation. I'm getting plenty of matches on Tinder and have girls in most cases responding to me at inconvenient times, responding to my opener much later than I would expect them to, or not continuing the convo after I attempt to bait an emotional reaction out of them. Even re-openers haven't given me much success recently. Compared this to earlier this year/last year the engagement seems to have dropped off. I've only been getting dates on weekdays where pulling is harder because it's a work night. I still manage to pull in half of those situations. Do you think this is an issue with the attention economy as we're heading into summer (friends, them getting invited to things, other matches, using the apps for validation) or just something I can improve on? If so, what's the answer, more re-openers/volume?

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you'll have to share some recent examples. I haven't noticed any more flakiness then when the weather was worse but I would consider myself pretty decent at moving them forward to a date.
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An update on this. I think part of this is to due with Memorial day weekend. I ran more volume, had 5 matches in in the past couple of days who are all going out of town for the weekend. Can't compete against plans like those.