She followed me on IG, FB, and Tiktok. we sent a few messages back and forth on IG i asked her out there was a lot of banter and some sexting. We went on our date and when it was done she asked if we could keep hanging out. We went to her place and we made out although she seemed hesitate to do that so i didn't push it. she refused to get closer to me on the couch too. pic 1 - she sent me a song she had talked about that night the next morning. pic 2 - she sent me a nude pic 3 - she ghosted twice after i responded to her nude. once on tuesday and another time on wednesday after she kinda texted good morning. pic 4 - she sent me a reel on IG wednesday after ghosting me on text. pic 5 - at this point she had stopped bantering and flirting but i still asked her on a date and she said yes pic 6 - she said shes kinda sick and we can reschedule next week (ive seen this message a million times so i doubt it will happen) no flirting and some banter. I feel like shes lost all interest after she sent the nude. What could i have done better?
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I'd say "All good, feel better. When you're up to meeting, let me know." Then I'd move on and focus on other women. Reach out again in 5 days or so, and if she's not hard-yes for a date, then I'd delete.
Nothing . You don't second guess yourself just because 1 woman is sick or loses interest. Operating from a place of fear or holding onto past experiences will make you less attractive. Operate from a place of confidence.
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I was just seeing if i could improve my text game or to see if i made a texting mistake. I pretty much get the im sick text after every date so im trying to get better