So I went on a few dates with this girl back in the spring before the cluster fukk of Covid hit , we instantly hit it off and have a great connection and chemistry. Makeout at the end of first date and hookup on dates 2 and 3. I can tell everything is going well and how she wanted to be more with me eventually and I felt the same. I take a weekend trip with some buddies and when I come back she begins distancing herself . She flakes on me a couple times and I be blunt with her , if you don’t wanna see my anymore then just be honest with me. She gives me some story of being not in a good mental state with her job being toxic and feels like she doesn’t have the time to date anymore with everything going on in her life. Granted she has ADD and OCD and probably feels overwhelmed, I was like ok and we left it at if things settle down we can try again. I do no contact for a couple months to give space and focus on some stuff of my own; I would eventually hit her up occasionally to see how she doing and I can tell the attraction and chemistry is still there especially making it sexual. But when I suggest meeting up she just brushes it off and doesn’t address it and stops texting me. I been letting a few days go by before trying to reengage her again from what I’ve picked up from Alex has said in his videos. What am I missing here? Feels like she’s hiding something or doesn’t want to tell me , having a hard time getting her invested again and flirty again. For context I used voice messages in some of the screenshots and used the thumbs up reaction for when she finally gave me an answer for a date; but acted like she would be down at a later date. Normally wouldn’t be hung up on a girl but she’s a good catch and attractive as hell to me. Where to go from here ?

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Well noted , I admit earlier on in my dating experience I would fall into being a text buddy. I know there’s something still there but she’s not telling me something, either still emotionally unavailable or just not interested. I’ve also been keeping my options open as well seeing other girls. I’ll try reengaging next week, thanks man for the response

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No prob

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