Hey guys, I met one of this girls from the hosting apps. I doubt she'll leave a review on the app. Since we met from another site but we both used the app. She is staying at my place for a few weeks. She's got her own bed. How would you guys approach it? I'm hopeful Alex can answer since this might be a advanced question. So far: i have been more of the chill landlord. I was friendly to her male friend who brought her stuff. I played it cool. The first night I did not try to hook up. Since being too aggresive from the get go might be a turn off. What's the best strategy? Play the long game, slowly try getting on her space? Should i try to sit on her bed? Invite her to watch movies at my bed? Try to get her drinking? Damn, so many questions!

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Hey Alex,

I checked it out but I think those guys where two while I’m only myself.

Do you mind a few follow up questions? I’ll continue in this thread and keep asking and you and the guys can answer I guess. She’s staying for a month so I think that I will have plenty of opportunities with her and other girls.

Strategy:
Buy red wine, get her drinking, invite her back to my room for a massage or Netflix. So far I’ve invited her but no alcohol I think that might be the missing ingredient. How do you get a girl to drink with you? Like with this type of girls in hosting it’s been a mixed bag.

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I would just offer it cordially. I wouldn't push her to drink alcohol. It's an activity you are doing already that you just invite her to

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