Good first date acting a bit distant . Went on a date with this girl that I met online had a good time we set up plans for this weekend she said she had some other stuff going on. And then saw she deleted her account from Bumble. Any signs on how best to follow up with her?
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I had set it up at as a date straight to the house. Last minute she texted can we meet over on this side of town.?We went for coffee. Didn’t go to far just a little pop kiss at the end.
This was one of those that was a bit hotter than usual so I played it more on the safe side TBH
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Well tbh that doesn't sound like a date that went well. If a chick changed her mind about coming over last minute, I'd try to figure out what's up. But if I could not get her to come straight over, I would only meet her at a bar nearby. Never come to a girl, it creates situations like this. Also, coffee dates are honestly mostly a waste of time. In terms of what to do next I would need to see a screenshot of the conversation to give you actionable advice.
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Yeah good insight I appreciate that this is pretty obvious to you what happened it seemed like it went well but in hindsight the fact that she was Bustin so many balls just to get her out was probably a sign