Girl and I matched on tinder a week and a half ago before July 4, tried getting her out immediately but for some reason that didn’t work. Distracted me with an unprompted nude that night lol. Have been trying to get her out after sexting but to no avail, even with another unprompted nude sent. Then on Fri I tried to actually set plans in motion but no response. Frustrating to say the least. Stuck on whether to use “don’t be shy” or “look if you’re not into this lmk and i can stop trying” as a takeaway here. Any thoughts?
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Word, maybe the early sexting spooked her a bit. Thanks man
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If I had to guess, it would be the fact that you guys both don't have your own place. So she's thinking there's no way for you guys to fuck. Also don't mention you're staying at your rents place, at least without some credible reason, it's a pretty big DLV.
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Ah, I did say “for now” implying it would be temporary. Didn’t exactly wanna mention I’m between jobs (starting a new one next wk tho)