I was with a woman for many months before college started. We had love. We would spend time together and go on vacations etc. One day. I started a YouTube content creation business. I invested a lot of time into it. 7 hours a day. She said she felt neglected. I spent more time with her and came up with a way to better divide my work. When I spent more time with her, she said I was too clingy. This drama only started after I created my business. I expected her to support my passion. And the business is successful so far. I am bringing in money. She says I care too much about money and not enough about having fun. Now that college has started, she wants to break up. My guess is she wants to fling around. I'm very hurt by this. We were together for a long time. I can't really understand what turned her off so quickly. She can't give me an answer either. I'm past the point in life where I want a party girl or hook-ups. I want a woman to be with. Does anyone have any advice on healing? Finding the right woman?
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Well, just bang a lotta girls. You're not in the right headspace now to find the "right" woman. You need to gain a lot of experience with other women, realize that you have plenty of options. But also learn from your mistakes. If she called you clingy, you probably were. And when she said she felt neglected, you had to communicate to her that you're on your passion and that will not change. She wants you to give her space and yourself space but command respect. That's how women work. Never believe what they say, but how they act
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She only told me I was clingy one time, and that was after she said "I feel like you are neglecting me" and I started giving her more attention. Anyway, I've been with other women since this has happened but I've also been texting her every now and then. Told her I care a lot about her and enjoyed having her in my life, and am willing to talk again if she wants but that I don't like the way she disrespected me at the end of our relationship. She Said she "needs time to think" which I'm translating to "if the guy I'm with now fucks up, I'll entertain you as an option again." Sound about right?
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It doesn't necessarily mean that it could just be that she doesnt know what she wants and feels mixed emotions but if i was you i would never consider getting back with her. Someone who would act like she did is 100% going to do it again. people don't change unless they do massive work on themselves which i guarantee she didnt do. texting her is a pure waste of ur time. sometimes walking away is the absolute best thing you can do.