I am going to add some value here since I have benefited a lot from this group. I have been in this group since the beginning and have seen myself grow tremendously from a cringy needy texter to someone who just gets 2-3 sets hook every week easily. I've also seen a lot of progress in guys like Tyrone and Tommy and ofcourse my brown brother Nitin. I can't speak for them or how they improved but here is what I did. Patience Nothing comes fast. It's a process. If you don't respect and enjoy the process you'll keep failing. Guys here can help you send every message and get you laid 3-4 times but then it gets irritating as you're not the only guy they're helping. Have some patience and learn the process. "Give a Man a Fish, and You Feed Him for a Day. Teach a Man To Fish, and You Feed Him for a Lifetime" Don't rely on others to get you laid. This is your life and you're responsible for it. It is not Nitin's job to get you laid UNLESS you take his life-transforming coaching and change yourself. One step at a time Many of the new guys here see others getting girls to their place and want the same. You need to understand everyone has different SMV and have been here probably longer than you. Things that work for Jeff and Tyrone won't work for you. Stop being rigid.Learn where you're fucking up. Fix that step and move to next. Here's an example. Opener ==> Is she constantly responding to your openers positively? If not - our bio and pics and opener is incongruent. If yes - you've a step in the door. Conversation ==> She responds to the opener, you got ahead of a lot of matches who sent 'Hi' and 'How're you'. BUT are you able to take conversation forward? If not - Give it a day or two. Girls are also people who've life and are busy. If yes - Good, you've the basics down and she's definitely interested. You're like 50% done. All you need to do is, be normal, non-needy and lead. Hooking ==> Now this is tricky. Sometimes if your pics are super nice and bio is kinda sexual, she'll give you shit test. She'll not comply. It's your job to HOLD THE FRAME and not start sucking up to her. Can you Hook her? If not - Find what is the problem. Are you losing the frame battle? Are you not answering her objections? Are you trying to rush it without getting enough compliance? If Yes - Good, so you've the girl in your frame and down to meet you. You've done a lot of things right, use the same process on your next matches. Date ==> Is she willing to meet you? Or is she stalling? Where is she suggesting to meet? Your place - ALWAYS the first option should be a wine date. If she does not comply then what? I've lost 5 fuck dates, who were hooked, DTF and sexted and wanted to fuck me. How'd I lose them? Well, they all wanted to get coffee and meet me in public. I used the pepper spray line, I sent her pics of my house, myself, nothing worked. WHY? Because I was in-congruent. The problem was not me, some girls just don't go directly to strangers place. Maybe it's their rules and values or maybe they had bad experience. If she's interested and is hardcore telling you she can't come to your place, meet her outside and pull her. Everyone here knows some game. She's attracted to you so she;s taking out time from her life to meet a stranger. STOP being rigid and if you want the pussy start listening to what she's saying and comply and you'll get the pussy. No girl will come to your place and spread her legs for you. They're humans and if they want a little effort from you, give it to them. Getting 1 lay with some effort is better than jerking off. If she's down to come to your place: Just be normal, chill. She knows things going to happen. Keep strong eye-contact. Touch her every now and then with some reason, like take her hand to ask about her ring/tattoo/bracelet. Don't do it randomly. Give a reason so she can backwards rationalize. Make sexual comments, use Gabriel's verbal escalations. There's more than enough content for everyone here for every type of girl. Search for LR and you'll find tons of posts. Go through them. Use them before you posts. Next time you post asking for help, also post what YOU are thinking of sending out and WHY. People who's respond will give you better option and tell you why you were wrong. This will help you understand text game better. If someone gives you advice in quotes "like this" it is your JOB to remove quotes and copy paste it as it is. Don't be a smart ass and add your words Don't be a smart ass and tweak it coz you think it's better Don't be a smart ass and send your own reply You asked for help for a reason. When someone offers help, use it, if you don't, DON'T fucking go back to the person asking "what should I send next" when you didn't listen to them in the first place. Stop asking for help in PM. Post it to the group so everyone can learn. That's how this community grew. Don't be selfish. Don't be afraid of posting too much (unless it's the same problem). There are plenty of examples in the cheat sheet to get you to the conversation step. Don't be afraid to lose girls. I've lost well over 100 girls trying shit out. I have made more than 5 tinder accounts (most when google numbers were working fine without emails). Don't get salty over girls not responding. Find out WHY and fix it. If you're having problems, comment below where you get stuck. There's always a pattern and you'll only find it when you start looking for it. This will help others while commenting on your posts helping you.