Yeah man, their was actually several mistakes made throughout this interaction. One that popped out at me was "Ah I was waiting for you to message me" That line only makes sense on Bumble. Over text, it just comes across as needy lol. Also, is this chick japanese. And if so, does it look like she's pretty FOB? This info will help me better advise you.
I had a feeling. So the thing with FOB Asian girls is you need to significantly simplify your texting. No sarcasm, no complex humor, no explicit sexualizing, & just keep things very simple & straightforward. Of course, their are exceptions but these are the rules I'd recommend in general when dealing with FOB asians. What might be funny to a white girl, might confuse a FOB Asian & so on.
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Yeah man, their was actually several mistakes made throughout this interaction. One that popped out at me was "Ah I was waiting for you to message me" That line only makes sense on Bumble. Over text, it just comes across as needy lol. Also, is this chick japanese. And if so, does it look like she's pretty FOB? This info will help me better advise you.
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
I had a feeling. So the thing with FOB Asian girls is you need to significantly simplify your texting. No sarcasm, no complex humor, no explicit sexualizing, & just keep things very simple & straightforward. Of course, their are exceptions but these are the rules I'd recommend in general when dealing with FOB asians. What might be funny to a white girl, might confuse a FOB Asian & so on.
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Oh man, will avoid that line on text in future. Thanks for pointing it out.
Yeah, how did you know. She is traditional Chinese! It seems she recently came to USA. She went to the same school as me.
Her bio says" Amateur trader,quick to laugh, mediocre engineer, obsessive reader, half-hearted fashion enthusiast, fake soccer fan, giant"
@avilench How did you think I should take it from here?
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I'm honestly a bit stuck on what you should say next. I think she took your last text literally & now thinks you're actually disappointed in her.
You can follow up with something like "That was a joke btw"